AFAIK wrote:The first list contains items that contradict one another, for example d says sports leagues can choose to allow trans people to compete as their chosen sex whilst l says they are forced to do so, which is confusing if I'm supposed to use this as a checklist to judge how transphobic I am.
They made special rules because men and women are not equal, particularly physical. Title 9 sports, where they made sports for women to participate on a fair field. When you let biological males (identifying as women) participate in women's sports, you get an unfair playing field that removes the fairness from the sport, and the entire point of separating men and woman, in the first place. These are real things affecting real women(not people pretending to be adult human females).
As you for your transphobic comment...
that's just you being a virtue signaller. People being forced to participate in the category designed for their biological sex is not transphobic. It's common sense, and is based on reality. That transmen are
not an issue in men's sports points out the vast differences between men and women. Women cannot cosmetically change themselves and participate against men, whereas men can. Hormonal therapy does not remove the inherent advantages that males have. Indeed, even with hormone blockers and such, a transwoman will have over 10x the testosterone as a woman.
I am all for people living their own lives, as long as it doesn't infringe upon other's rights.
Want to dress up as a woman? Great. Want to go to a women's washroom and infringe upon their rights to privacy away from males? No.
Want to groom and push children towards your gender identity ideology(contradictory to biology and reality), or teach them sex at a young age? NO. You can do that to them in college, when they are consenting adults.
Want me to call you "Loretta" if you are a man? I'll happily do it. It isn't going to make me believe you are a woman, however. You cannot police my pronoun usage, either, but most people try to be polite.
Society should not support the delusions of a very tiny minority who need mental health care more than anything else.
“Let me never fall into the vulgar mistake of dreaming that I am persecuted whenever I am contradicted.” ― Ralph Waldo Emerson