- 08 Oct 2020 06:01
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You don't strike me as Mr. Romantico at all. You probably pester her all day with--Don't open the door if they look political or religious nut types. I am not stuck with tutoring our daughter on virtual school. Open up the schools and let those youngsters run wild.
No @Rancid you met your wife as a teen in school. Old school long story of AMOR. I met my husband at age 16. He pursued me as only a man with a goal on his mind....I was young and not into marriage. He was into marriage. He convinced me.
I think all that romantic stuff is really up to the couple.
You stated that your father in law is a guy who doesn't communicate much and is unemotional. She is uncomfortable with that. You are more open about it. Part of your appeal for her I would take a wild guess. Open and emotionally sweet. A great thing. But you have to realize she might be less open due to her family dynamic.
Me? I got a family that liked him a lot from day one. He was my father's friend before I even met him. They had mutual interests together.
I think one is lucky if you even find love in this world. So many people wind up alone and without real connection. That is what everyone wants.
You are easy to love Rancid. At least for me? El Gran Cagon. Te quiero...cagoncito.
Rancid wrote:The thing with all of these men vs women sort of arguments that happen here is that I always feel like most of that shit doesn't apply to me. We have a system/rules we both agree to and it works for us. Some of the rules/things we agree to are old school, but whatever, it works for us. Yes, you are right, she could easily get a very good job and go if she wishes. I'd guilt trip the shit out of her for abandoning her kids though. She old school Chinese though, if she hated me, she wouldn't leave me cause of the kids. Frankly, I'm the same way, even if I hated her, I wouldn't leave her cause of the kids. We'd both grind that shit out. White knuckle that shit all the way through.
All of that said, I still maintain that men are more romantic than women. I think I've stated this example before:
I have this shed in my back yard. It's basically a pier and beam setup. The shed started to sink into the ground. My wife and I spent about 2 hours jacking up the shed and re-leveling the ground. I remember telling her "This is romantic! Working on our home together, like a real team!" then I kissed her. She was like "Wha? huh? this is just a stupid chore". I don't give a fuck what anyone say's, working on the home you are raising your kids in with your spouse is cute and romantic. Fuck all of you if you don't agree.
Fuck you all :cries:
You don't strike me as Mr. Romantico at all. You probably pester her all day with--Don't open the door if they look political or religious nut types. I am not stuck with tutoring our daughter on virtual school. Open up the schools and let those youngsters run wild.
No @Rancid you met your wife as a teen in school. Old school long story of AMOR. I met my husband at age 16. He pursued me as only a man with a goal on his mind....I was young and not into marriage. He was into marriage. He convinced me.
I think all that romantic stuff is really up to the couple.
You stated that your father in law is a guy who doesn't communicate much and is unemotional. She is uncomfortable with that. You are more open about it. Part of your appeal for her I would take a wild guess. Open and emotionally sweet. A great thing. But you have to realize she might be less open due to her family dynamic.
Me? I got a family that liked him a lot from day one. He was my father's friend before I even met him. They had mutual interests together.
I think one is lucky if you even find love in this world. So many people wind up alone and without real connection. That is what everyone wants.
You are easy to love Rancid. At least for me? El Gran Cagon. Te quiero...cagoncito.
La historia de mi amor
se pudiera encontrar
en cada corazón,
en cada soledad.
Silvio Rodriguez
se pudiera encontrar
en cada corazón,
en cada soledad.
Silvio Rodriguez