SE23 wrote:Depends what your definition of power is.
Power to die in wars, power to be more likely to end up in prison or homeless, power to commit suicide; you get the picture.
The whole notion of "patriarchy harms men too" fails acknowledge the power females have and what they always have had in society.
The power to start wars and rape women with impunity in war.
The power to commit murder.
The power to make more money, dress the way you want to, automatically be respected without having to earn it, walk down the street withou tbeing objectified and a million other ways.
If a woman is hit in the street by a man, many will come to her aid, and the man will most likely face arrest. If a woman hits a man in the street, people would stand idly by, nothing will come from it; people will probably assume that the man is in the wrong. Now thats what I call power.
Way to completely ignore the fact that men tend to have significantly more upper body strength, and the fact that male on female violence has been used since time immemorial to oppress women. If you ignore these two facts about power, then you might have a point.
For the conservative religious man, violence is not prohibited when "disciplining" a woman. On the contrary, it is almost a duty.
Ever seen an argument between a boyfriend/girlfriend, it will get to a certain point, until she says "right we are not having sex tonight" and then it will be over, the boyfriend will beg for reconciliation; this dynamic has been played throughout history.
Here you ignore the fact that women are almost always the victim of rape and men are almost always the perpetrator.
And for religiously conservative couples, they are pretty much obligated to have sex with each other regardless of their personal desires. We usually call sex without consent "rape".
Most movements and calls for legislation have been created for the benefit of women. How did they encourage millions of young men to go and fight to their deaths; well they were told the "women of Britain say go". The government encouraged women to place white feathers on men in civilian clothing in order to shame the boys for not defending them.
Thank you for the example of how traditional male roles hurt men as well.
SE23 wrote:Both men and women benefitted and were harmed by traditional roles which were placed by them; the notion that men have been conspiring to keep women down and still do to this day, is absurd. I have never had another man give me a special deal on a car or motorbike for simply being a man.
Really? I got a job in the construction industry by simply knowing someone and being male.
I get treated like a paying customer when I walk into the Future Shop computer department. Many women do not.
I get treated like I know what I am talking about when I go into a mechanic's garage. Women do not.
Like I said, traditional roles give men privileges.