Beren wrote:You pretty much are, actually.
Your skin-colour may not be white but your mind-colour rather is. And I don't mean you're innocent.
Mind colour? Lol. That is crazy Beren. In Africa you got nations that are all African Black nations, that means the president of the nation, and the middle class, the ruling class and the underclass are all Black people. Top to bottom, the elite are snobby and discriminate against the lower classes. Does this mean they become white due to their discriminatory by default like white European ex colonizers? Or that ghetto dwelling white English underclass people in London become automatically dark skinned Latinos? No it does not mean any of that. It means that class consciousness is a problem in almost all organized human societies. It is far more pernicious and difficult to change than color coding and superficial forms of racism. Institutional racism and laws backing institutional forms of racism are hard to change in class conscious societies, but the superficial types of racism is easier to modify than the class discrimination by far. India has a terrible class system. They are a democracy and a very large one. But they got caste problems and class based problems. Brahmins are the top, and untouchables at the bottom. All of them are Asian people and not Europeans versus Africans or some category based on colonialism and European imperialism. It is hard to change. But I saw some documentaries that took untouchable kids and raised them in a boarding school and made them professionals like lawyers, doctors, engineers, and proved that the untouchables had the ability and potential to be like Brahmins. Basically class conscious shit is really shit Beren. But? The greater issue became that their biological families, felt distanced and disconnected from their own children because the entire culture of the untouchables was about an identity based on centuries of doing the same jobs and living with common values related to their place in society for a long time.
Also, living in their communities and following traditions. Traditions that were no longer followed by their own children raised to be doctors, lawyers and engineers, etc. They were outcasts within their own biological families. Not really belonging to the new elite class in India, and not belonging to the roots of their own caste families. In an in between and emotionally painful world of not belonging.
There was a sociologist trained and whom graduated from Harvard, who did a study about Boston low income neighborhoods and followed kids who were able to leave the ghetto and become middle class and even wealthy, and kids who stayed in the hood and never changed their social and economic ranking in their lives. The interesting thing the ones who stayed in the hood said to him? 'The price of becoming middle class meant leaving my friends whom grew up with me in my neighborhood behind. I had to give up my sense of being me and part of my family and go and become some snooty snob person that would never understand what I have gone through.' They were unwilling to kill their ethnic identity that brought them a lot of meaning and sense of place and belonging and they did not want to kill their socioeconomic class identity to take up the mantle of a new identity to be successful in a conventional sense. It was not about their lack of intelligence or abilities. Many were very intelligent and had a lotof abilities. They just had a sense of loyalty to those people who witnessed their growing up and who composed their social environment. Being outcast is severe punishment in many cultures around the world Beren. To pull the trigger on that? For making more money in the end? And being a person who is willing to kill an identity for a lifetime and adopting values of a class that might reject you in the end anyway? Is not an attractive trade off. For anyone.
They say the same thing to us Puerto Ricans. Just shake off your Puerto Rican identity. It is not going to be useful to you if you want to integrate and assimilate into US society. Drop the Spanish. Drop the traditions. Drop your history. Your values. And hope the white elitists accept you in the end. They even told my father in 1958 to drop his last name, and since he looked white he might go up the ranks. He had to stop hanging around with the black (n words) who were his friends and all would go well for him.
Who the hell wants to be a part of that value system unless you are a worthless sellout?
I will never do it. You can be successful like Rancid and not be hiding who you are. Why should he be filling out boxes all damn day because the society is so retarded that they do not understand that as human beings we are not pure and easy to categorize. We are fluid and complex. All the time. Diverse and complex.
The society has to change its stupid value system. Not @Rancid and not I. My little boy asked me today if he was white. We were discussing racist histories and he asked why the Nazis had to categorize everyone as gypsies, communists, jews, gays, etc in order to place them as enemies of the state and put them in forced labor camps. I told him, 'they had to do it because they justified differences as offenses. If you are different you were an enemy. They also did not like Down Syndrome people or people with disabilities of any sort, missing legs or blind or in wheelchairs. Anyone that was not whole, sound, white and so on.' He then asked, 'were they perfect?'. No, they were not. Hitler had one testicle that was not descended properly. He was not particularly tall or athletic. He was not perfect by any means physically. He then retorted, 'then why were they requiring the rest of society to be perfect by their standards?' and I replied, 'Because they were living in denial of their own defective selves. They were worse than the people they condemned. They wanted to judge everyone and never judge the horror of their own actions. Their lack of respect, their lack of humanity, their destruction, their murderous tendencies their lack of being able to make a better society through civilized means. They were using barbaric means. Which meant they were barbarians. Something they accused their victims of being from cultures of barbarism. When it was they who were barbarians with their inhumane and horrible regime.' End of story.
This legacy admission is not far off that mentality. Really.