Wellsy wrote:I still feel confused by what still appears to be a cartesian dualism in theories of emotion. Psychology still describes causal physical processes or it describes the experiencing of qualia and then pairs them. So whilst the physiological examination is useful as the basis of emotions emotions also aren’t reducible to physical processes. The james lange theory exemplifies as much in that emotions are imbued with the intellect and take on a different quality. Where we are able to weep at art, or to feel injustice. The difference between a man whose ideological milieu has him wish to harm a woman for infidelity in a way that another man doesn’t. Emotional life and its explanation has come a long way in being more tied to actions rather than merely a passive reflection of a physiological process, but I feel still uneasy about how it should be accurately concieved such that one can explain how one socializes man in such a way that his body becomes sensitive to very complex ideas that from a bio causal explanation don’t seem quite possible. Our passions are educated such that the love many find is not synonymous with what counts for love in those who see only the satisfaction of desires/appetites through another.
But I imagine Fromm draws attention to the higher quality of love although he may not be able to really explain it in specific detail.
There is something odd about humans where I suspect we might be able to make things like emotions intelligible but not through a causal means, causality as a concept has its explanatory limits of which it cannot quite explain practical free will although it can provide hints to clarify as much.
https://www.ethicalpolitics.org/ablunden/works/determinism.htm
I suspect human nature is made intelligible in inferences from our activity and our concepts embedded in such activities.
And I very well see such alienation in the inmates I work with. The narrowing of their selves due to their addiction. We even talk about that or they talk about it in ways without knowing the word. Like how they view their drugs with human powers which it as an inanimate object it couldn’t have but such is its power over them. They even use the analogy of it being their God, even if a false one.
Whatever a person dedicates huge amounts of effort, time and dedication to doing or being? That is what they become Wellsy. How many people truly dedicate themselves to loving other people with absolute dedication the way Fromm says one has to do. With discipline and with practice and theory all wrapped together?
The system says relationship is secondary to status. Got to have things, possessions, money, power.....and where does love and loving and caring about other persons fit in to this?
You are going to get a lesson on love that is wide as the sky when you get that baby girl in your arms....Alice Elizabeth.
She is going to depend on you to be alive in everything. And she is you and your wife's physical and emotional connection incarnate......
All the rest of your activities are going to be about how to protect her...once you understand that? Love will take on a new dimension for you.
You will see directly how being in love with your wife and having a child from that relationship means that the creative forces out there making life happen for humanity has a power that is infinite....
My husband's first words when our son was born and he cut the umbilical cord and contemplated that baby? Was: "Dios es Grande." "God is Great". Because nothing is quite as miraculous as a being who did not exist and suddenly exists and is there....because you exist darling Wellsy.
Ese es el amor. That is the power of love in this world.